BEAT milk and dry pudding mixes in large bowl with wire whisk 2 minutes or until blended. Gently stir in 1 cup of the whipped topping.
PLACE pieces of the Chocolate Cake in 2-qt. serving bowl; top with layers of half each of the pudding mixture, whipped topping and strawberries. Repeat all layers.
REFRIGERATE at least 1 hour
REFRIGERATE at least 4 hours or up to 24 hours. Store leftovers in refrigerator.
In a 2-quart heavy saucepan bring 2 cups of the milk,2 tablespoons of the sugar, and the scraped vanilla beanto a boil over medium heat. In a large bowl, whisk together the egg yolks and remaining 2 tablespoons of sugar. Slowly pour 1 cup of the hot milk mixture, whisking constantly, into the egg yolk-sugar mixture. (Do not pour the entire yolk-sugar mixture into the boiling milk mixture, as it will curdle the eggs.) Whisk in the remaining milk. Pour the milk-yolk mixture into the saucepan and cook over medium heat, stirring constantly, until the mixture coats the back of a spoon. Do not boil.
LAYER: J. Marie Vanilla Butter Rum cake, vanilla custard, strawberries, whipped cream.